Grudges of Get-togethers

Organizing something for a group of people is difficult.
But it is even more difficult when people in the group gives u lotsa problem!!
It is extremely difficult and really a turn off when everything is planned and someone has to do something to spoil the whole thing.

Listen carefully, the purpose of fixing an outing date so early is so that u all can plan and forecast ur things carefully and have better preparation. Its okay, if u have something on due to genuine reasons. But it really pisses mi off when people start saying they that day cannot becoz they need to study, they feel very tired blah blah blah. I mean like halo, u guys cannot study another day meh. Since u know u going out that day, the day b4 u should do more reading instead of last min realize that u haf some stupid test going on the nxt day and decided to leave all of us alone like that. Then in the end blame mi for not being considerate to u when u are the one who seriously needs some lessons on time management.

The frustrating thing about last minute changes is that i specially save this time slot for u guys. I have lotsa frens outside who also wanna meet mi lor. Mind you. But on some occasions, i even have to reject or reschedule another day juz for u guys, in the end, some of u say cannot go wanna change day. Very pissed one lor. My frens also uni students lor, they are busy people too, very hard to plan outing with them too, but i nv plan anything on the day we fix lor, coz i agreed and promise u all le. Dun wanna break promise. In the end.....what do i get???

Its also pisses people off when people are trying to organize activity and when we come out with one, these irritating bunch of people would just have to complain about every single thing under the sun.
Wah so expensive ar, dun wan lar.
Wah so sian.
Wah so crowded.
Wah can we do something else.
Wah i dun feel like doing this leh.
You noe what, i just feel like telling these people to shut up and tell them, "Wah, u all damn irritating leh."

Spare a thought for the organizers can. U think u so gd come and organize lar. Wanna complain right? Then everytime ask u for some better idea keep quiet down there expect the answer to drop down from the sky. Or worse, come out with some boring or unrealistic idea. Just feel like giving these people one tight slap on the face.

If i am a person who uses vulgarities, this post will definitely be full of it!!!

Whats the point of having a gathering when we need to go through so much hassle. If u all so much thing to say right, dun meet lor nxt time.

And for ur info, if u think this message is to only one of you, u are so wrong. This message is written to 2 of u guys out there. Pls think and reflect over what i say. From now on, if this continues, im not gonna bother over all this organizing thing. If the meeting and outing u all plan i dun like, i just won't go. Thats it.

Some people just needs harsh reminders like this to wake up their bloody idea and be more considerate and appreciative to others.

XianHao