Friendship..

Dear zhui xing frenz,

Even though I am so busy and have piling up assignments and test, I'm still spending the time to blog about what I think. So please be patient with me and hear what I have got to say OK?

Ok.. I'm writing cos I hope we all can spend some time thinking and cooling down. Actually it's not something very serious.. friends do argue and unhappy with one another at times. So I hope this time round it's juz another ordinary argument. Dun bear grudges k? U noe how much we treasure this friendship.. Dun ruin it juz because of our impulsiveness, stubbornness or even irrationalism.

I'm quite neutral towards this incident.

I understand that Xinyi has got her own problems. Having to handle her sis' matter, stressed with increasing workload, tuition stuff etc.

But xinyi,
Do U know that we are not forcing u, not giving u pressure and not even think that planning ur bdae is a hassle. I can tell U it's the Opposite.

Why will someone spend so much effort to plan ur bdae if U r not important to us? I can tell U it's not easy for e 3 of us to meet up, preparing ur gifts and surprises. We have the thought and sincerity to plan ur bdae. Cos it's 21st bdae! Do u understand our intention? It's same as parents will not nag at their children if they dun love them. Logic is the same.

We didn't say that we muz plan everything by tt sat when we met. We juz hope to know what U think, juz yes or no to say if U like the picnic idea. I read ur blog. U like the idea.. But why dun U juz tell us? That will save us trouble and ur trouble of being irritated by constant reminders rite?

Why we remind? Again.. Ur bdae is impt to us. In fact, every zhui xing member's bdae is impt. At least to me.

Xinyi, so when U say smth like "I also never say I wanna celebrate, but it's u all who kept saying".. it really hurts us. Cos we spend so much effort juz wanna make Ur day memorable. Then not appreciative it's ok. But "tink we so free meh?"

Again it's back to U saying U never tell us to plan. But if everyone dun wanna plan, then how we meet? It's not like it's juz 2 of us. It's 4 of us.. each with different schedules, different mindsets. Planning is necessary. But it doesn't mean tt we muz make it stressful like a meeting.

We look forward to meeting. Then planning also becomes enjoyable cos everyone wants to have the gathering. Everyone has a role in planning. It not only lessens the workload for me and others who r planning, it also makes outings more enjoyable. Cos we roughly haf an idea what we going to do.

So I hope Xinyi.. u can take the time to ponder about this k? Please dun say dun wanna meet. Spare a thought for us K? We'll wait till u free. At ur convenience. But ur attitude is not right this time. Maybe due to stress or whatever reasons.. But I think u also 2 stubborn at times le.

And Xianhao.. I know U did ur best in trying to reach us. Thanks for the effort. But at times U need to be patient too. Give the respondent a day to reply k? And respondents please do at least reply at the end of the day.

Everyone has flaws. We muz accept and forgive. That's what frenz r for rite?

Can I see the old Zhui xing spirit back?? Please?!

我不希望看见追星解散。

Fine $100000.

Haha.

Mango~